Whenever my family comes to visit me I use it as an excuse to visit all the tourist attractions and cultural institutions that make Chicago one of the world’s greatest cities. This Thanksgiving I took my mom and my brother Matt to the Museum of Science Industry, the biggest science museum in the Western hemisphere. All of us are obsessed with severe weather; living on the border between Arkansas and Oklahoma – in the heart of Tornado Alley – tends to breed a fascination with nature’s fury.
After visiting the storm exhibit, which includes a live lightning demonstration and a mini-tornado, we wandered into Fast Forward: Inventing the Future. One of the centerpieces of the exhibit was the Galaxy Dress above. I took two photos, one with a flash and one without, and then created a gif to better illustrate the design. Although a lot of futuristic fashion can be gimmicky, I thought this was a really cool exploration by CuteCircuit designers Ryan Genz and Francesca Rosella on how light might be integrated into garments in the future. This is also the world’s largest wearable display (which is kind of a gimmick, but this looks so cool I’m willing to ignore it). The dress was sewn by hand using organza and chiffon. In addition to the thousands of LED lights carefully woven into the fabrics, around 4,400 Swarovski crystals were beaded onto the garment as well. The secret science nerd in me is totally geeking out on this dress.
And for those of you rolling your eyes, one of high fashion’s darlings has experimented at integrating light into his dresses too:
In 2009, exactly ten years after my “abstinence-only” sex ed class, I took a trip to Kenya with my mom at the age of 23 to go on a safari. In between flights we spent the night in Nairobi, where I would see up close the effect that the HIV/AIDS epidemic has on people when I visited the Kibera neighborhood in Kenya’s capitol city.
As part of the Explore Kibera program, we met with community leaders and social activists including a group of of HIV+ women who formed an informal trade network to sell handmade jewelry to pay for their treatment. Two of the women I met told me how they contracted HIV from their husbands who had been having unprotected sex behind their backs. Another told me about how she had contracted the virus during a rape.
Perhaps the most heartbreaking part of the tour was when we brought food and school supplies to a church-run HIV/AIDS orphanage. All of the kids there were HIV+ orphans who had contracted it from their parents. After that experience I pretty much just wanted to sit down and cry for the rest of my life. I felt hopeless in the face of so much suffering. But there are things we can do to prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS, like promoting the use of condoms.
The fact is that condoms, when used properly, dramatically reduce the risk of acquiring HIV/AIDS during sex. People who live in progressive Northern cities like Chicago are often unaware that there are still places in the United States – like Fayetteville, Arkansas – where teenagers are taught that the only way to protect oneself from contracting HIV is not to have sex at all. While it’s true that abstinence is the only way to 100% protect against HIV, condoms are extremely effective (99% with perfect use) because the fact is that the vast majority of human beings are having sex, married or not. And as I learned in Kibera even married monogamous women can contract HIV if their unfaithful partners don’t use condoms as protection.
Which brings me to Maggie Kervick’s work in raising awareness around the slut-shaming of women who carry condoms. She decided to combat the secrecy and awkwardness that often surrounds discussions about safe-sex by bringing it right out into the open. You guessed it – she designed handbags made out of condom packets. Definitely a conversation starter, these bags are meant to get people talking about these issues making them both a fashion statement and tool for social awareness.
Listen up sex-positive readers, to enter to win Maggie Kervick’s wristlet above all you have to do is:
1. Like LifeStyles Condoms on Facebook
2. Like Maggie’s Facebook Page, BagsByMags
3. And leave a comment on this post with your first name and last initial telling me one thing you love about yourself. That might sound strange, but practicing safe sex (whether with a condom, by being monogamous, or practicing abstinence) is all about self-love.
I’ll announce the winner in a separate post next Friday, December 9th. Then I’ll arrange via email to have the bag mailed to you. GOOD LUCK!
To learn more about how to safely use condoms, click here to visit the LifeStyles website.